Comments on: A to Z Challenge: R is for Rejection https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/ Tue, 10 May 2016 04:18:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: JHWinter https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-355 Tue, 10 May 2016 04:18:22 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-355 In reply to Rowena.

I think my problem with my manuscript after having queried a small amount of agents, was that I loved the story, but felt there were parts I could still improve on. I just didn’t really know where to start. I had hoped the book would get signed, an editor assigned to me, and then they would help make it perfect. Wrong. The problem is, they see the same faults we do. They want us to get our books as close to perfect as we can before they sign. I don’t blame them. This is why I hired my own editor (Alison Williams) who I adore working with. She is helping me to get Adeline’s story to where I am proud to send it to agents knowing it is the best I can make it.

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By: Rowena https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-354 Mon, 09 May 2016 14:07:04 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-354 Thanks very much for this. Before you get to the stage of approaching an agent, you still need to get it past your harshest critic…yourself. It’s all very well when you’re in the flow and it’s all going well but them you need to go into edit mode and I know my inner critic starts to raise it’s ugly head. Nasty! Nasty! Nasty!
That’s where putting your writing on the blog can be very encouraging. Reading positive, enthusiastic feedback can help you through the hump. At least, that’s the plan.
xx Rowena

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By: JHWinter https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-353 Mon, 25 Apr 2016 14:05:22 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-353 In reply to Sheila Good.

As always, thank you for your comments, Sheila. It is nice to see you coming back each day 🙂

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By: Sheila Good https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-352 Sun, 24 Apr 2016 22:47:46 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-352 Ah, those lovely rejection letters. I’ve had my fair share, but if you listen to those who provide feedback (not many do) you will succeed. thanks for another great post.

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By: JHWinter https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-351 Sat, 23 Apr 2016 14:14:49 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-351 In reply to J.R..

It’s so very true. Agents advice is very subjective as would be anyone’s who reads your work. Having said that, their opinion should still carry weight as they’ve been in the business longer and have seen a lot of what works and what doesn’t. Thanks for stopping by, J.R.!

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By: J.R. https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-350 Fri, 22 Apr 2016 18:47:59 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-350 Thank you for this!

I’m excitedly dreading the point when my manuscript will be ready for query submissions. I’ve been trying to mentally and emotionally prepare myself for the rejections that I’m sure will happen, but it helps to keep things in perspective and I totally agree with your advice to listen and consider suggestions that agents make.

I like how you stressed ‘can take their suggestions’ but still let writers know it’s in their hands whether or not they will.

J.R.

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By: JHWinter https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-349 Fri, 22 Apr 2016 15:11:47 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-349 In reply to Jennifer Shelby.

That sounds about right! Gone with the Wind, by Margaret Mitchell, was rejected 38 times. Agatha Christie’s books were rejected for over five years before they were finally picked up for publishing! I find it amazing that so many famous authors struggled with this same thing when they first began. It makes the journey to publication, and getting the rejections, a little easier to manage when I know that I’m in good company.

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By: JHWinter https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-348 Fri, 22 Apr 2016 14:06:28 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-348 In reply to Karen.

That is so true! I bolstered my confidence against rejection by doing a lot of research prior to querying. The research told me how much rejection happens in this business and not to be put off by it. It’s just a stepping stone to getting where you want to be!

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By: JHWinter https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-347 Fri, 22 Apr 2016 14:03:37 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-347 In reply to Jackie.

Thank you, Jackie! The more you get, the easier it gets. That’s why, when an agent leaves constructive feedback, it is that much more special. Something in your writing struck them enough to want to take a moment to write a personalized response. Those are the best kinds of rejections 🙂

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By: JHWinter https://frizzybee.com/a-to-z-challenge-r-is-for-rejection/#comment-346 Fri, 22 Apr 2016 14:01:28 +0000 http://blog.jhwinter.com/?p=395#comment-346 In reply to Saraallie.

That is great that you didn’t let the comments of one professor (who sounds like he was off-base in his feedback) stop you from your writing! Not everyone would have pushed forward after that. It just goes to show, you shouldn’t let rejection stop you from what you love. 🙂 Thank you for stopping by, Saraallie. I hope to see you again!

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